Is a guy gay if he uses a dildo?

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Over this Labor Day weekend, people were constantly asking me questions about Jock Muscle and owning a sex toy company.  Suddenly, the question “Is a guy gay if he uses a dildo?” sparked a heated debate.

If a guy finds anal stimulation pleasing and uses a dildo to aid in masturbating is he gay?

Jock Muscle wants to hear from our readers.

Does it make a guy gay if he uses a dildo?  What do you think?

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42 responses to “Is a guy gay if he uses a dildo?

  1. James

    I am a 22 yr old straight guy and I recently have been playing with my ass. I bought a small dildo to start with and it was really painful at first. Now I am really getting hot for bigger sex toys like 7 inches and thick…I know some guys can take more but that is big for me.

    I love jerking off and having my ass filled with a hard dildo. I don’t have any desire to let a guy really fuck me. I just like the sensation of anal stimulation.

    I fuck women and am not attracted to guys. I think a guy can enjoy playing with dildos and not be gay.

    BTW love the JM website it is very cool.

  2. Richard

    I agree with James I am a very happy marry man that enjoys using a dildo on myself. It makes you cum so fuckin hard it’s crazy.

    I have no desire what so ever to let a guy fuck me.

    Just like I love it when my wife sucks my cock but I don’t want a guy anywhere near it. I’m not gay. There is nothing wrong with being gay. Hey whatever floats your boat but I love women!

  3. Kaleb

    Jock Muscle you guys fuckin’ rock! Your sex toy site is way different from other sites I have viewed. I am not really a blogger but because this topic is so personal to me, I have to.

    I’m a 27, half black/half latin, good looking, straight guy but I DO play with dildos. I was about 24 when I first started ass play, I was just fingering my ass and I thought that was painful. But I was really ashamed when I enjoyed busting nuts with my thumb stuck up my butt. I was constantly was thinking, “What if someone saw me” or “This is really GAY” but I continued to thumb my ass because the nuts where so good. I finally got the courage to go to a sex store and bought a small dildo just to try…I thought I was gonna die with this little, lotion covered, 4 inch dildo stuck up my ass. Just thinking about that makes me laugh. But after the pain, I started riding that 4 inch rubber like a champ. Also, poppers helped me over the pain. (Also buy real lube and not lotion…but lotion works if nothing else)

    I recently ordered, the Eddie Stone dildo from you guys and that motherfucker feels good. I’m not gonna lie I couldn’t use it the first 3 times I tried because of the huge mushroom head. But with poppers and a jack and coke, I was working it! :)

    I know people are reading this thinking I’m gay…fuck you. I eat and fuck pussy all day. I ain’t NEVER looked at another man or have any wants to have a real dude fuck me but I’ll ride the shit out of a dildo and bust a fat, sloppy nut all over the floor. LOL. Trust me those nuts are fat and sloppy with dildos.

    To the dudes that are too scared to play with their ass…GO for it. I am still embarrassed and I don’t tell any my friends I like dildos. I can admit, I’m a punk bitch because I think my boys will think I’m gay. (I’m being honest as fuck with you) I do what feels good to me. I’m telling you when that dildo starts banging against that spot in your ass you will start craving it. I don’t even jerk off without a dildo now…the orgasm isn’t the same.

    Keep up the good work Jock Muscle and come up with some other topics to discuss. I’m looking at getting that Adam Dexter you guys just posted. I am curious about that curve. :)

    • Curious

      Im str8 but im ashamed to play with my ass because i think its gay. Reading your post gives me a little bit if courage… Can i watch you use the dildo on yourself? Can we face time or oovoo?? Kik me @ 2_smOOOve

  4. asianjock

    I think guys that use a dildo in their ass are curious and may be bi-curious…
    And the guys that responded so far are bi..and/or are just in denial and havent discovered their true nature yet…like taking baby steps:-D!

    …and its cool;-)

    Happy new Year and decade 2010 buds!

    • Jeff

      I don’t agree with your comment whatsoever. I enjoy anal play but am not attracted to any man, in fact it actually disgusts me to think of a man fucking me. I fuck women, I’m open about my sexuality and I know I’m not gay, but if I were I’d have no reason to hide it.

  5. David

    The only thing that makes a guy “gay” or “bi” is if he’s aroused by (eroticized by, sexually attracted to) another guy (1 or more). If he’s attracted to 1 guy at 1 time in his life, but to hundreds of women, then he’s bi. If he’s attracted to hundred of guys, but only 1 woman once in his life, then he’s bi. If he’s attracted to only guys, then he’s gay. If he’s attracted to only women, then he’s straight. His ass is just his ass, whether it’s an erotic part of him (in his mind) or not.

  6. whiteguy

    I love dildos, specially the big ones, i have been fucking my ass with a dildos since 21 and im 34 now, i use a 12 inch only take 10, its real thick size of man wrist,,,ooooo feels so freaking good……..addicted very addicted once u start using big ones no turning back, that feeling keep u coming back,once my lady is sleep im in garage. i dont see myself as gay, love women, guess just stumbled on the feeling by being curius bout my own asshole, not any other man, i think even if a man does has encounter he can recoup back to the state of mind of nothing happened, unless u get caught..lol

  7. bill smith

    To David, not necessarilly. I’ve been in a situation where I could have been with a guy and no one would have known but I truly didn’t feel it. Just wasn’t there. Having said that, I love using a dildo on my ass. Amazing! In fact, if no one has tried it, boild a pot of water and let the dildo soak in it until hot. Then use it on your ass. Of course, go slow to make sure you don’t burn yourself (kind of obvious!) but I promise you, you have never felt anything like it! The physical release compares to nothing. Believe me, I’m as straight as they come, but damn there that anal please is crazy intense. Just be happy.

  8. Curious Guy

    I love dildos so much. I have never been with a guy and am happily married, but when I have a dildo up my ass, I feel like it is what was meant to be. I absolutely LOVE a vibrating dildo. It takes me places I have never been before.

  9. boybelladonna

    I LOVE dildos up my ass! Getting into the fist dildos too. I became interested after seeing straight porn. It wasnt about the guy, it was that the girls seemed to be really enjoying it. Naive, but I started to look into it and found that lots of girls are into anal. After anal sex with a few girls I became curious with how it would feel. These days I DO fantasize sometimes that I’m the girl, but sometimes I pretend my gf is sharing the experience with me as well. Any guys who are reading these posts should really NOT worry about it, cause it feels AWESOME. I mean awesome in the word’s actual definition. Think Mount Everest. Just start slowly and remember to train your ass in pulling AND pushing. The muscle does both and they have different but equal in terms of feeling great.

  10. Adam

    No I don’t think he is gay if he uses a toy

  11. Hurtwomen

    Women who has a boy friend who wants t I be fucked with a dildo and have another women watch I tried it for him with out other people cuz I couldn’t live with it ended up getting pregnant so naturally couldn’t do it no more so he looked for women who would. Talk to him about this aka whores online via backpage most likely he’s had his dick sucked by a dude in prison so yes I think he’s a gay man who hates him self for it and wishes he was straight and now has a new born little girl Putin the mix for you guys who are a little unsure please don’t bring children in the world or date women and let them believe its happy ever after and you love the. And them out soure yes if you like your butt touched by dick shaped objects your at least bi if you didn’t think so then why don’t you tell your friends

  12. LoveDildo

    Years a ago I can’t imagine sleeping with another guy so I am not gay. Today’s porn is very common for lady to get fuck in the ass. I guess I was curious to find out how the sexy lady porn star feels inside her when getting a fuck in the ass.
    Since it always turn me on therefore I decided to give it a try. Started with a lots of lube putting a smaller dildo in my ass later I decided to get a butt plug and now I am able to take in a bigger dildo and get really deep with double head dong. I really enjoy fucking my ass, sucking dildo while watching porn and imagine I am a porn star. After many months later I started to wear lingerie , high heel, lip stick while sucking dildo and fucking my ass. It feels really good inside me. When I get really high sometime I wish that I could get someone with a real cock. I imagine one guy fucking me from behind while I give a deep throat to another guy.
    But did not proceed from there because I know it will eventually make me a gay or a shemale.

  13. John

    Yes extremely gay !!

  14. Deseri

    Noooooo not at all gay, I really belive all men like anal stimulation but are to chicken to admit it……when sex and pleasure is being enjoyed there should be no boundries or a limitation of any sort just enjoy ……the ecstasy you get our of so much pleasure!

  15. 9"rider

    I bought a large 9incher Arpad Miklos dildo and I fucking love it. Stick it in and go for a ride. I agree with the other guys that the cumming with a dildo in your ass feels the best. I will say I like both guys and girls. But does it really matter? Guys do it regardless of your preference and enjoy the greatest orgasms. Ima do it now. Lol

  16. Dan

    I just have a question!: if these guys said that they are not gay, what they are thinking when they have 7 or 12 inch in their ass? Oviously this is a cock figure and cock is a male genital. I’m 32 straight man and I did poppers ones and played with my ass. ( Just fingers) That created a big question mark on myself.

  17. mraaronsjohnson

    if its not a another man in your back door how. I applaude u all for keeping it real and being in touch with yourselves. from the above post whiteguy is the only one that has gone as far as me as far as size. 2 of my exes used to give it to me like that and it was some of the greatest times ever. next woman Im with I plan on trying the double-sided dildo and see how that goes. in fact ive had women tie me up fuck me and then sit on my face with my nut all inside there pussy still – may not be for everyone but if you don’t explore and experiment youll never know what or who u really are. now again does this mean im gay FUCK NO. im still the same ol’ G so please believe still tell men no and one approach me the wrong way hes getting a beat down ass whooped.

  18. quagmire

    Ive fingerd my ass and enjoyed it, pushed a tampon up there, wet my finger and shoved it up further so it expands. Even a candle whent up there once and I enjoyed it! Its just the thrill of doing something taboo.. yes Im straight and often thought about being banged by a real cock, but that will never happen. I think I’ll be too embarresed to buy a dildo, so I might just use whatever I can find!

  19. Jingjai Rueplao

    If you are curious about sexual self stimulation then keep reading.
    However, I must warn you that it is addictive. The next time you are in
    the shower jerking off, soapy up your ass and gently ease your middle
    finger into it. If you don’t agree that it increases the intensity of your
    orgasm, then you will never pass a lie detector test. Be warned, it is
    additive. You will do it again and again.
    You can fantasize that you are having sex with a women, with a man, or
    with yourself (which you really are doing).

  20. Bill

    I love to ride my 8 inch Doc Johnson ultra ralistic dildo. I find this abit homosexual but I honestly do not care.

  21. MUSCSTUD

    I honestly think that guys on here are gay/bi-curious in some way just in denial I can say I am a bisexual men I been with guys/girls and I have never used a dildo or any sex toy so fact that “straight” men are that just seems like wtf bro you’re gay. Not that I should care but I think we enjoy different things but if their girlfriends/wives knew I think they would stop Lol if you enjoy getting penetrated by a dildo or a woman doing it then you’re the bitch and that is that not hating just saying.

  22. Jason

    No ! If it feels good to strum late your ass it’s your ass and you are stimulating it it doesn’t make you anything but just creative ….if another guy is holding the other end of the dildoe yea your gay. If your girlfriend shoves a dildoe up your ass your a kinky heterosexual .
    Doing it alone means your masturbating that’s it .

  23. I don’t believe using a dildo for anal pleasure is gay being gay is a life style being bisexual is also a life style but requires that which involves both sexes and I have enjoyed my girl friend’s pumping me with different dildos of all different sizes for over 25 year’s as well as solo my favorite solo is the great American challenge by Doc Johnson and my girlfriend loves using it with Me but I have no desire or attraction to other Men even though My girl friend thinks it would feel even better for Me too have a huge man cock inside me but again I have no interest in another Man probing my ass.

  24. Lee

    I’m sorry but dildos should be for gay and Bi men only. It’s like you taking a cock up yourself so if you enjoy that feeling you should think twice about your sexual preferences. I’m gay so I know I enjoy it but a straight man enjoying how a dildo feels up him makes isn’t normal

  25. jordan

    I would play with my ass with I was 16 now im 21 and I have a nice thick dildo that I take and my girlfriend help me at frist she was like its wired but niw she lets me do it all the time

  26. Mark

    Recently my wife and I went to Mexico for our late honeymoon and she was giving me the most amazing handjob and while she was stroking me she had a little bullet vibrator that’ was turned on and she was rubbing it along my balls and then lower to my gouch area and then went circling around my asshole, it felt so good like nothing I’ve ever felt and it gave me the urge to tell her to put it in my ass, I came almost instantly, it was so explosive and was the best orgasm I’ve ever had, now here’s my dilemma, I have absoloutely no interest in men, I love my wife but I wanna experiment with bigger toys, and I think it would be so hot to let her fuck my ass, as she has let me fuck her in the ass, but she said, I think it’s cute u like having a little toy in ur ass while I stroke ur cock, but if u want anything bigger, I’m gonna worry that ur gay and then we will have a problem, so what do I do?

  27. Screamin Demon

    Be open with your girlfriends or wives if you want and need this. If the female does not understand that you have a g spot in a place that can only be stimulated that way then she is selfish. My new man told me right away he wanted me to fuck him and I get extreme pleasure out of knowing I am going to give him what ever he wants when ever he needs it but I have a very strong mind and understand the needs of this man. Him being a pretty boy makes it easy for me to please too. Pretty boys get what they want.

  28. Samantha Barsalona

    The interesting thing is that we have categories. “Straight,” “gay,” etcetera. One category here, another one over there, and very strict boundaries. I think I am straight, I consider myself transgender, because I am a male but very much enamoured of crossdressing as a woman. I love women so much, that I want to be one. And I love to play with my dildo in my ass. (I like to call it my “ass-pussy,” somehow that sounds more romantic.) I love it big and thick. I have a wide variety of dildos, one of my favorite is of a thickness that I can barely fit my hand around it. I don’t have big hands, my hands are about average size. And it provides ten inches of penetration. Another one of my favorites is twelve full inches, and just as thick. I also really enjoy a dildo called the “Feeldoe,” which is available online from feeldoedotorg and from Good Vibrations.

  29. Jason

    No i don’t think, i fuck girls, and they enjoy the same to me! Its kind of kinky and sexy as hell. As they say, it makes us better lovers, and that’s true… But who am i kidding, it feels absolutely incredible! Who cares what ppl think, if your not attracted to the opposite sex, so be it! I won’t judge, i’m an adult! Oh how i miss adolescent stupidness

  30. chris

    I love a dildo up my ass,but I’d like to feel the real deal. being gay is life style,bi-sexuality may not fall under the same lines !

  31. James

    I don’t think it makes a guy gay just because he enjoys anal stimulation with a dildo or vibrator while masturbating. For many years as a young boy and adolescent I often used different object in my assistant for heightened pleasure while stroking my cock. Tho it is true that as an adult I love the feel of another mans cock filling my ass with cum, I am equally as turned on being fucked by a woman with sex toys!

  32. Chuck

    I have been putting thing in my ass since i was a teen I am now 51 I get a nut so big my wife love it.

  33. pegged

    I usually enjoy 7 inches and can take 8 with a proper warmup. Beside the sensation, I enjoy the fact that the woman is dominating me……no guys allowed but I love being a busty girl bitch……..

  34. That’s crazy why you have to fuck with your ass to cum its crazy you must be gay or something. Its not cool I know that

  35. Krista

    I’m a girl and I have a male friend who enjoys a dildo in his ass. He is definitely straight and no I don’t think he’s bi or curious he just likes the feeling. Sexual preference is determined by the emotions and attraction you have toward another individual. A lesbian girl may like the feeling of a dildo in her vagina but that doesn’t mean she’s straight. Guys can be so judgemental, and it’s really a shame. I’m sorry that you guys feel embarrassed about it. It’s not that big of a deal. Keep on keeping on and don’t let anyone question your sexuality because of what you’re in to.

  36. midmoguy

    I am a straight guy who enjoys anal stimulation as much as a BJ. I enjoy it to the point i can fist myself. The feeling of being stretched and filled alone makes me ejaculate uncontrollably… 10 times in a hour at least. I also often walk around with a XL plug in, and depending how i sit i have made myself cum many times. Now nothing better than a woman double fisting me as she bobs my knob.

    I am not bi, bicurious or gay. I am only turned on by the feminine form. I was involved with a TS porn actress years ago, and she loved how responsive i was to anal stimulation…. and i enjoyed her monster BBC filling me up. before that i had a military roomie when i was in, who made me his cum dumpster. If i didn’t enjoy it, i would have called it rape… but i enjoy being humiliated like that from time to time. Dated a gal who loved to cuckold me… while i enjoy being dominated and forcefully fucked by guys (or forced to perform oral… I must admit i do enjoy making anyone bust a nut, i am whorish like that) and while dildos cannot replace a nice big giant hard cock blowing a huge load of cum in my ass, i need to at least see naked women while it is done. I have 0 attraction towards the masculine form, i love a womans form. I perhaps enjoyed the transsexual porn actress and her friends (men, women and other TS) gangbanging me the most of all sexual escapades involving others. I would never seek man on man… and while i enjoy TS and bisexual MMF porn, especially when it portrays a dominant woman and other guy, they need to be hung. I am attracted to large monster cocks… and no surprise most of my dildos are black. I guess you could call me a size king heteroflexible whore who enjoys making other people no matter gender get a nut.

    Perhaps i should just become an escort or go do porn…. would love to make a bunch of transsexuals cum in my ass after they chain me up and humiliate me publicly.

    I also enjoy raunchy nasty sluts… love when my wife is gangbanged and covered in jizz. She enjoys us being sandwiched and feeling me cum from getting pounded. She also enjoys pegging me with a monster black dildo and a large double dong…. maybe i am just a dirty whore…. but i enjoy the thought of being one, and that my wife is one… now if only we could find a TS or two around here with nice big thick cocks….

  37. I recently tried using my girlfriends dildo in my ass….kinda hurt and wasn’t great. I tried it again a week later and it was better and actually felt good in a very weird way. I jerked off and it shot out farther than ever before and thought I was going to pass out, wow. ive done it like 5-6x now and it gets hotter each time. Im probably bi and don’t know it..lol

  38. Maxibutt

    I used to think it was just a fetish. I have used dildo since I was a teenager. But a few years ago I started dressing in women’s panties and tights… as I was getting curious. I had never before thought of men as a suitable sex partner. Now I am becoming more and more attracted to men. The dildo had always been a puzzle to me. Now I know it’s a substitute for a man. Am I gay? I think I might just be.

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